Self-reported excessive weight loss took my baby away
On the third day of the Qing Dynasty surgery, I came alone to the grove that had promised us many good wishes.
The wind is very light, with velvety drizzle on the cheeks, but the colic in my heart is still the same, thinking back to my husband’s soft words: “Don’t be sad, raise your body and say. you should pay attention now, don’t seeThe wind is cold, don’t get out of bed for a week, don’t take a shower.” Since the incident, he has no blame and blame, and careful care has made me guilty.
Close your eyes, the pain in your heart is deeper while spreading.
Baby, why did my mother accidentally lose you, you were me, how eagerly the whole family is looking forward to it!
Like all female friends who are now beautiful, before pregnancy, I am addicted to various fitness programs and dieting methods, so as to get slim.
The daily overload of exercise and the approximation of the harsh diet made me lose more than ten kilograms of excess meat.
Wearing a beautiful fashion, taking my husband on the street, I feel very good.
So small size, not every woman can wear on the body, as for the hard and difficult death of sports, everything is worth it!
However, when I was enchanted by the joy of losing weight, my body had some bad conditions.
The “old friends” who have always arrived on schedule have become very rare, and then they simply don’t come.
I felt that the situation was not good, so I went to the hospital.
After doing a B-ultrasound and various tests, the doctor pointed out to me: “You are obviously secondary amenorrhea caused by excessive weight loss. The test results show that your corpus luteum is low and the hemoglobin is low. If not treated in time, seriousWill lead to infertility!
“I am stupid, and I look at my husband and take a breath.”
To know that you have been married for two years, to have a lovely baby is our long-cherished desire!
So we embarked on a long road of seeking medical treatment, saw Chinese medicine to see Western medicine, and ate Western medicine and Chinese medicine.
I went to many hospitals and did all kinds of consultations. Most doctors said that if they are properly conditioned, there should be no problem, and proper exercise has a positive effect on the body, but it is not too demanding for menstrual diet.
Therefore, I did not completely stop the exercise. When I was eating, I only added a little staple food. The husband advised me to have confidence in myself and insisted on giving me Chinese medicine every day.
From spring to winter, after a season of four seasons, the situation has improved gradually, but the menstrual cycle is not accurate, sometimes it takes thirty or forty days.
I follow the doctor’s request and patiently measure the body temperature every day to make a record.
Until recently this time, there have been no more than 50 days, and the body temperature has continued to 36.
There are more than ten days above 8°C. Is it. I dare not think about it, and my husband sneaked into the hospital.
I clearly remembered that I knew that the day of pregnancy was a sunny morning. I held the diagnosis tightly and I was so excited that I could tear my eyelashes.
Out of the hospital hall, the whole world is full of color in my eyes. I use my trembling hands to send a message to my husband: “Husband, congratulations, you will be a father next winter!
“Husband’s information and people are almost at the same time:” Wife, hard work for you!
I will love you more!
“The following days are busy and joyful. I purchase special milk powder for pregnant women, inquire about the intake of various folic acid and trace elements, and subscribe to the magazine “Marriage and Health and Health”, refer to relevant questions, accept the parents and friends.congratulate.
In order to be prudent, I went to the hospital for a comprehensive inspection.
The doctor who realized that my living habits took the test results and said to me optimistically: “From now on, you must change the original mode of life.
Strengthen nutrition, reduce exercise, your corpus luteum is somewhat low, and blood pigment is only 8.
2, the suspected situation is very bad for pregnant women, especially the first three months, must pay attention to rest!
“After returning home, my husband told me very seriously that every day, three meals a day must be eaten according to his recipes, reducing exercise and stopping dieting.
My heart is very contradictory. The long-term weight loss life makes me know that it is easy for people to get fat, and how hard it is to weigh a pound!
I thought to myself, maybe the beginning of pregnancy is not as serious as people say, maybe it is helpful to exercise.
It’s this kind of luck. I secretly glared at my husband and made a slight adjustment in the amount of exercise. I changed my original 60-minute run every day to 30 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes in the afternoon. I still insist on eating.The original less food and more dishes, the amount has not increased much.
So nearly two months, there is nothing wrong with me, and I have no morning reaction, such as morning sickness, tiredness, and so on. Maybe this is the benefit of sports!
Just as I gradually became smug, one day I suddenly found myself seeing red.
The doctor injected me with progesterone to let me lie down. She said to me without hesitation: “Your nutritional status and current physical condition are very bad, which has a great relationship with your long-term diet, leading to the first 2The monthly implantation itself is not stable, and it requires extra rest and nutrition.
Whether this population can be saved in the end, we must continue to observe the size of blood flow.”The doctor’s words are like a blow to me. The feeling of remorse can’t be expressed in words. I don’t dare to move in bed. The huge guilt and regret in my heart almost swallowed up my whole person. I can’t imagine how to face it.”This is the next few hours.
In the dark, I tried to stroke my stomach and talk to the baby who only had more than 50 days: “Baby, don’t leave your mother!
Mom is wrong, must change!
Although we only get along for two months, mom loves you!
“The next morning, the blood flow made me cool down completely, hiding in the bathroom, I was like a thousand arrows, and I didn’t want to go out anymore.”
Lying on the operating table, my heart was broken into pieces, and any cold instrument was squirming in the body. The tearing pain made me have a pleasure to punish myself.
At the end of the operation, I heard a cry of a baby crying from the next room, my heart was touched by some kind of sad and tender feelings, smiling and shed two tears, a new life,For that happy mother!
At this moment, I understand the true meaning of “heart is like a knife”. I haven’t done any tears in a few days. Although I know that everything has not been done, the pain of deep and incisive has tortured me all the time.
Expert guidance should be full and not bones are now popular thin beauty, many women are very eager to make themselves as star Zhao Wei as light as Yan, or like Zhong Lizhen that bumpy, then you have to be careful!
Studies have shown that excessive weight loss may make you “being a person” (pregnancy) failure.
Frisch is a professor of population science at the Harvard School of Public Health in Boston. She has been studying the relationship between human body and birth for the past 20 years, in her book The Relationship between Female Fertility and Physical Fitness.: Pregnant women have a lot to do with birth ability. Women’s body pregnant women will convert male hormones into female hormones, and a woman with good nutrition should have 40% of aunts.
If the female body’s aunt is not enough, the body will gradually reduce the reproductive hormones, and eventually “close” the body’s reproductive ability; too thin women will stop ovulation at first but continue to come through, and then lose weight will completely stop menstruation; such as rich system “closed”It’s too long, it’s too late to add another pound to restore.
Therefore, normal women using abnormal drought to lose weight will affect their reproduction, and severe self-destructive function.
It is the truth that many thin models are completely infertile.
In fact, if pregnant women are too obese, proper exercise and diet control are also possible.
But pay attention to everything can not be excessive, because food is very nutritious in the mother’s stomach, and any weight loss method may make nutrition loss, once the mutation occurs, the consequences are unpredictable, according to the National Center for Health Statistics 1600The results of a maternal study showed that it is best for pregnant women to gain an average of 15 inches before birth.
Weight gain to 12?
15 kg of pregnant women, the rate of stillbirth during childbirth is only 3.
For pregnant women who weigh 10%, the stillbirth rate is 10.